Interestingly, more mature women reflected on overt sexism and predatory behaviour experienced in the ‘80s & ‘90s.  Younger women fear more subtle bias.

NUMBER 1, (this word came up repeatedly): “I hate to be seen as a bitch”.  Variations include, “ball breaker” and “Hitler in knickers”.  My advice when dealing with such language: reflect and consider – don’t react.

Maternity leave generates major concerns about career and financial prospects. Women feel they are considered casual about work when dealing with family issues.

Social fears: IMPOSTER SYNDROME. Being judged for everything but the quality of my work.  Loneliness. Maintaining personal relationships. Can I still be myself?  I don’t want to be compared to men. Getting my voice heard. When concerned, being seen as “harping on”, frustrating male colleagues.

Non-gender fears: Fear of failure.  I’m safe/stuck where I am. The CEO won’t have my back. Developing from current role to demonstrating a strategic mindset. Putting my head above the parapet. Perception that women are more risk averse than men, (also better at mitigating it).

Ending on a positive note: “What fears? NONE.”

Next: “NETWORKS & MENTORING” #cultivateher #leadership

14th January 2021